Love: a Bluetooth connection?
We all love our phones and devices and we use this brilliant technology all the time, to link ourselves directly to the people and subjects we love. But such connectivity is not really anything new.
In fact, being connected is ancient - it is hundreds of millions years old. Love (or 'attachment' as I prefer to call it) is like an ancient Bluetooth mechanism which bonds us to our significant others! See the blog tab for more!
Counselling with Kevin
Thank you for visiting my website. If you are considering counselling you have made a positive step to get this far. We are not encouraged to talk about our problems in our society. We are told to 'be strong' or 'just get on with it'. Too often, we keep things bottled-up while they cause us pain and suffering because we fear that talking about them will make things worse.
Counselling gives you the chance to open-up about what is troubling you in a private, safe, confidential space. Sharing your problems in this way allows you to 'get it out' in a way which can instantly help you feel better, and help you make sense of things. Often my clients face a dilemma, not sure of how they feel or how to deal with situations or problems. I am a professionally trained psychotherapeutic counsellor and as such, I will help you identify and untangle what is going on, so that you develop a clearer understanding of the issues affecting you and the solutions you need.
I work one-to-one with clients and as a couples or relationship counsellor. In both cases, I aim to work in a warm, friendly, gentle way, and in a focussed way, guiding my clients (individually and as couples) on their journey at a pace that feels safe and steady.
I appreciate that private counselling costs precious money and time - my aim is to provide affordable and effective counselling to get you to the better place you need as quickly as possible. Some clients achieve this in a small number of sessions, while other clients have ongoing life-situations and wish to work for longer periods. I work with a wide range of adult clients from all backgrounds and of all ages to address a very wide range of issues including:
Relationship issues (of any kind)
Abuse (past or present)
Issues around sexuality
Bullying (past or present)
Loss, bereavement and grieving
General unhappiness or unease
Meaning and meaninglessness
Thank you for reading my page - I hope you get in touch so that I can help with the issues affecting you.
Location, cost and availability…
I am based in a warm and comfortable counselling room located conveniently in Newcastle City Centre. I am available evenings Mon - Friday .
My sessions last for 60-70 minutes for which the charge is £40.
Relationships are Everything!
Every problem you ever had, will have, or have now, are to do with your relationships with people in your life...
We are relational creatures - we can't exist without relationships in our lives. When they go wrong it can have a profound effect upon us, causing us to go from happiness to despair in seconds.
Being half of a couple is trickyHuman beings are naturally predisposed to being in a close, loving relationship. However, finding such a relationship which meets enough of our individual needs can be tricky.
I also help couples to understand where they are in their progression through the stages of relationship. Many couples stumble when the initial romance fades, feeling the relationship is not for them or that something has gone wrong, when in fact they may be experiencing a natural shift in depth within the relationship. I also help my clients rediscover their individual selves - the very selves which attracted the other person to begin with.
In relationship counselling I focus my clients to identify what is happening for each person, and what needs to change. I aim to create a fair, equal and balanced environment, helping each person to understand each other, why they are experiencing 'blockers' in their relationship and how to overcome them.
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